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It's that time of the year again, where I attempt to recap my year and things i've learnt and condense them into the form of one blog post. So here goes. 2017. What a fucking year. A year of mostly downs, i admit. Honestly, it was a terrible year. I lost a lot of people this year, and i think along the way, i even lost myself. A lot of things happened that have changed me in a way that i can never go back to who i was. It was mostly a year of trying, and failing. A year that ended with a broken heart and a broken spirit. It wasn't all bad things, though. I fell in love again this year. And falling in love is always a beautiful thing, no matter the outcome. I started my degree and I figured out that i still have a lot to learn. I went overseas for the first time in years and fell in love with cities I never dreamt of being able to visit. I got to travel alone and experience things i never thought i'd experience. My best friend YY and I founded our own 'mamak ...

2.58 A.M. When i broke off from my first long term relationship, a thought that crossed my mind a lot was, "what if i never find someone who can love me like he did?" I used to think that was a bad thing, the most horrible thing, actually. To never come across someone who could stand me and tolerate me and love me the way he did. At the time, I was convinced that no one else would be able to do that other than him. But now I've come to realize, that its not a bad thing. Not at all. The thing is, we never find the same love twice. And that's completely okay. Every single time you fall in love, its different. A different experience. I've fallen in love three times. The first time, I fell fast. I dove right into it, recklessly. But what we had was comforting, because at the time we were in high school together and my naive, 16 year old self led me to believe that we would make it through anything. But things changed, we both changed and life drifted us apart from...

The end, the beginning. It's June 2017, and my year of FNBE at Taylor's Lakeside has finally drawn to a close. It felt never-ending in the midst of it all, but here I am, at the end. I made it, not unscathed unfortunately, but I made it and that's an achievement in itself. I feel like I should feel accomplished and proud of myself, but in reality I just feel drained, empty, confused, and so unbelievably tired. Exhausted. Don't get me wrong, I learnt so much this past year, and I've had my fair share of ups and downs, gains and losses. I've definitely improved, although not to the level I want to be at. But I feel like I've gotten worse too, in some aspects. I've improved in the sense that I've now come to realize for once in my life that maybe I am good at something. Through fnbe, I've been able to explore my creativity and be honestly impressed by the fact that I have any good ideas at all My ideas may be seen as weird but i'd like to th...

Dear me, Hi. How are you? I hope its not one of those days where you're feeling so down and alone. I hope you're feeling happy. Because God, do you deserve that. I know that things are rough and you probably feel like you'll never be enough. But trust me. You are more than enough. Dont put yourself down because of every little thing. And especially dont put yourself down over things that arent in your control. You need to see how life is incredibly unfair, and it will throw things at you that you never see coming. But at the same time you need to see how good things are. The little things that surround you. Those are important. The thing is, we always seem to be waiting and waiting for that one big moment, that one big thing that will change everything. You think that, that will make your sadness go away, that will fill you up with so much happiness you forget why you were ever sad. But let me tell you a secret; it's not going to happen. At least, not that one big ...